Friends with benefits (FWB) is a fantastic way to reap the physical benefits of a relationship without all the hang ups that can make dating and relationships an emotional mess.
Take a few moments and look at these few tips that will allow you to get the most out of your FWB.
No Falling in Love
Falling in love is out of the question. The entire purpose of Friends with Benefits is to bridge the gap between serious relationships. As a FWB participant, it should be understood that the other party is free to do as they see fit. So jealousy is out of the question. If you get jealous of your FWB, you no longer wish for them to be your Friend with Benefits and are searching for a more meaningful partner.
The shelf life of a FWB relationship is somewhat limited. You must enter into it knowing this. Failure to do so will cause more problems down the road.
No Dates
Your Friend with Benefits is NOT a date. We would all agree that meeting a partner's’ friends and family can be nerve wracking and uncomfortable. Don’t try to introduce your FWB to your friends or family. One of the “benefits” is that much of the relationship aspects are stripped away. Go out with your friends or family and send the booty call text when you’re done with your friends. The key here is to keep it casual.
Sleeping Over is Alright
It is alright for you to stay the night with your FWB, if you have established this to be alright from the beginning. Where many people make a mistake here is never staying over and then after the deed is done, asking to stay over. This can cause problems and even cause your FWB to stop taking your calls or texts.
It Takes Two to Tango
FWB is about sex. And the best part about sex is the climax. You must ensure that your FWB gets theirs. In addition, you must demand that you get yours too. If either party is a selfish lover, the whole Friends with Benefits is quite pointless.
Be Selective
Choose your FWB wisely. You want to keep your friends and your FWB separate. So this means, your existing set of close friends is out. There needs to be a clear division between your friends and the pool of people you choose from for your FWB. Choosing an existing close friend can cause all manner of problems down the road. Do yourself a favor and just avoid it.
Be Safe
When you have a FWB, safety needs to be a top priority. The most sure fire way to implode a Friends with Benefits relationship is to have to deal with an STI or pregnancy. FWB is meant to be casual. Dealing with the heavy issues of infection or pregnancy goes against the fundamental purpose of this type of arrangement.
In all, Friends with Benefits can be a fun way to keep things light and casual if you avoid the pitfalls that many people fall into. While it is casual, ensure you are communicating with your FWB so that both of you can continue to have fun without all the relationship hang ups.
To perform well and always ensure another sexy night with your FWB check out Rock'n Products line specifically designed to increase libido, performance and satisfaction for both men and women. Check out products like the Rock On Passion Pill for Her or Rock On Metal Rock Male Sexual Enhancement in order to optimize a healthy sex life.
No Falling in Love
Falling in love is out of the question. The entire purpose of Friends with Benefits is to bridge the gap between serious relationships. As a FWB participant, it should be understood that the other party is free to do as they see fit. So jealousy is out of the question. If you get jealous of your FWB, you no longer wish for them to be your Friend with Benefits and are searching for a more meaningful partner.
The shelf life of a FWB relationship is somewhat limited. You must enter into it knowing this. Failure to do so will cause more problems down the road.
No Dates
Your Friend with Benefits is NOT a date. We would all agree that meeting a partner's’ friends and family can be nerve wracking and uncomfortable. Don’t try to introduce your FWB to your friends or family. One of the “benefits” is that much of the relationship aspects are stripped away. Go out with your friends or family and send the booty call text when you’re done with your friends. The key here is to keep it casual.
Sleeping Over is Alright
It is alright for you to stay the night with your FWB, if you have established this to be alright from the beginning. Where many people make a mistake here is never staying over and then after the deed is done, asking to stay over. This can cause problems and even cause your FWB to stop taking your calls or texts.
It Takes Two to Tango
FWB is about sex. And the best part about sex is the climax. You must ensure that your FWB gets theirs. In addition, you must demand that you get yours too. If either party is a selfish lover, the whole Friends with Benefits is quite pointless.
Be Selective
Choose your FWB wisely. You want to keep your friends and your FWB separate. So this means, your existing set of close friends is out. There needs to be a clear division between your friends and the pool of people you choose from for your FWB. Choosing an existing close friend can cause all manner of problems down the road. Do yourself a favor and just avoid it.
Be Safe
When you have a FWB, safety needs to be a top priority. The most sure fire way to implode a Friends with Benefits relationship is to have to deal with an STI or pregnancy. FWB is meant to be casual. Dealing with the heavy issues of infection or pregnancy goes against the fundamental purpose of this type of arrangement.
In all, Friends with Benefits can be a fun way to keep things light and casual if you avoid the pitfalls that many people fall into. While it is casual, ensure you are communicating with your FWB so that both of you can continue to have fun without all the relationship hang ups.
To perform well and always ensure another sexy night with your FWB check out Rock'n Products line specifically designed to increase libido, performance and satisfaction for both men and women. Check out products like the Rock On Passion Pill for Her or Rock On Metal Rock Male Sexual Enhancement in order to optimize a healthy sex life.
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